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I have a complete grasp of my expenses and am fully aware of my spending patterns.
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I do not operate from any kind of budget and spend money without regard to a budget.
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I have invested in my marriage by attending a marriage seminar or by continually reading books on the subject.
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I am doing the best as I can as a husband or wife. Therefore, I believe my time can be spent more efficiently on other issues.
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I have established a physical baseline for future medical reference.
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I have never established baseline references for critical health indicators, nor do I see the need to.
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I am continually growing in my spiritual knowledge and faith.
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I am not interested in deepening my faith.
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I can list at least 5 things that energize me.
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It is difficult for me to list things that energize me.
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I have a written financial plan with a clear picture of where I am going financially.
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I have never done a financial plan and don't have a clear picture of where I am going financially.
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I schedule get-aways with my spouse (alone) at least 2 times per year.
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I am too busy and overwhelmed with other activities to be able to schedule that time.
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I schedule regular medical checkups for maintenance purposes.
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I go to the doctor only when I am ill or injured.
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I am experiencing spiritual growth with my spouse or a close friend.
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Spirituality is a private thing, and I am not interested in growing spiritually with anyone else.
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I can identify 3 "unique abilities" that others would identify as strengths that I possess.
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I am unaware of any "unique abilities" that I possess, and others would have difficulty identifying them as well.
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I have met with an attorney in the last 3 years and have a current will and other necessary legal documents.
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I do not have a will because I just assume it will take care of itself. Besides, I won't even be here.
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My key relationships are my highest priority. I never allow anything to interfere with them.
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My relationships are established around convenience.
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I get at least 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep per night.
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My sleep patterns are very sporadic, and I often feel tired.
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I am clearly passionate about a cause that supersedes my needs and wants.
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Meeting my personal needs is my main purpose in life.
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I am using my strengths and unique abilities at least 60% of my time in my life's work.
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I feel as if I am spending the majority of my time doing things that don't fully utilize my strengths.
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I have done an insurance audit and have adequate coverage in the event of a catastrophic event.
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I have no idea how much or what kind of insurance I should have.
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I don't have any relationships that have unresolved conflict or stress hindering their growth.
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I have several relationship that are strained because of unresolved conflict or past hurt and pain.
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I schedule at least one day per week when I do absolutely no work.
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I have to use every available moment to catch up on pressing needs and responsibilities in my life.
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I integrate my spiritual beliefs into all other areas of life. I see life as being multi-dimensional.
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Spirituality is something that is one-dimensional and isn't integrated into other areas of my life.
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I am able to utilize my unique abilities in an activity outside of my life work.
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I very seldom have the opportunity to utilize my unique abilities in activities outside of my life work.
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Based on my current financial position, I am on target to accomplish my life objectives.
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Based on my current financial position, I will have to make some major adjustments to accomplish my life objectives.
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I find myself laughing regularly with my key relationships and schedule time to play.
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I am too stressed and don't have time to purposely laugh and play with those I am closest too.
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I am totally aware of calorie intake and am cautious with what I eat.
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I do not pay attention to my eating patterns and have no desire to watch what I eat.
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I am clear about my purpose (why I am here) in life and have written a personal mission statement.
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I am unclear about my purpose in life and wouldn't know where to start in writing a personal mission statement.
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I am constantly learning a new skill through workshops, meetings, or other methods (other than work-related).
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It is difficult for me to find the time to learn new skills.
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I have established an adequate reserve fund for emergencies.
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I haven't taken the time to determine how much to have in reserve or begun to establish that fund.
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I have established a regular exercise program and follow it at least three times per week.
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Exercise is at the bottom of my priority list. Therefore, I seldom work it into my schedule.
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I spend quality time with God reading and praying almost every day.
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I read and pray only at my place of worship or when I am in great need.
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I am currently and consistently working on eliminating or overcoming a weakness in my life.
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While I have a weakness or undesirable habit, I am not engaged in or committed to a plan for overcoming it.
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I have a written plan for eliminating and/or staying out of debt.
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I am carrying too much debt and have no plan for eliminating it.
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I have made an effort to meet my neighbors and have invited them into my home.
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I don't know my neighbors and have no interest in showing them hospitality.
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When I go on vacation, I never take industry magazines or answer business e-mail and phone calls.
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I am always available for work matters and use vacation time to catch up on business reading.
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When dealing with life's challenges, my first response is to look to a higher power for strength to meet them.
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I tend to be very self-sufficient when problems come. I count primarily on my own energy to get me through.
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I have a positive self-image and feel significant. I know I will succeed at most things I attempt.
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I have several areas in my life that are clouded by significant self-doubt.
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I enjoy giving to others and have a plan for increasing my ability to meet the needs of others.
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I don't give to others, or it is done out of guilt.
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I enjoy the respect and admiration of my co-workers and those I volunteer with.
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I have no clue how they feel about me, and quite frankly, I really don't care.
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I am completely satisfied with my current physical condition.
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I am not happy with the way I look and feel. I am physically unfit.
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I know the core values that drive me and could list them immediately.
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I have never really thought about my core values and am not sure what really drives me.
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I have a clear understanding of the strengths and weaknesses of my personality and temperament.
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I have not taken the time to understand my personality and haven't intentionally discussed how to use my strengths.
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